Given The Rarity Of Good Men, Should Women Consider Sharing

Comment

Comment by b-gyrl on July 7, 2009 at 10:33pm

There isn't a shortage of good men or good women. That's a myth. There's a shortage of men and women who are willing to take it slow, court and get to know someone before they hook up. There's a shortage of men and women willing wait for that special person. There's a shortage of men and women who are looking and preparing for the relationship of a lifetime. There's a shortage of men and women not willing to settle. There's a shortage of men and women who have enough self esteem to find someone worthy of their time...There are a lot of good men and women, for the reasons I listed above who get caught up in unhealthy relationships as a result...that's where the myth comes from...its not going to be good with the wrong person.

Comment by Nikki on July 5, 2009 at 5:30am

My husband has no energy for more than one woman. We stay connected. I expect him to be monogamous.

Comment by INDUSTRY STANDARD on July 5, 2009 at 1:26am

THANK YOU SINCERE!!!!!!!!

Comment by sincere2k on July 4, 2009 at 11:01pm

Should women consider sharing b/c of the rarity of good men??? LMAO!! Wow....That is the biggest bunch of horse shit I ever heard in my fucking life.

There are a lot of good men out there just as much as there are good women. I agree with Industry Standard & I'm also sick & tired of the lame ass excuses. At my last job I heard the same crybaby excuses. What makes this hilarious is that I would sit down & LISTEN to what these females at the job would say. (i.e the guy their with is no good, he was in jail, he has no job, he doesn't want to work, have a baby with the guy knowing the fool ain't shit, he cheats & disrespect them & etc) Then look at me & say ALL MEN are no good. LOL I tell them that is not true & also their self esteem is low. They rather settle for less instead of dealing with a real man who has their scruples together. Now check this scenario out. The same women who bitch about how their boyfriends are no good. Are the same ones who cheat on them BEHIND THEIR BACKS WHAT IRONY LOL I have seen this live & in color with a few women at my last job. I find these screwballs to be a bunch of pathetic hypocrites.

It's easy to play the victim & blame society for the issues that particular individuals create for themselves. I look on the other side & I see young women who have their shit together & are happily married or happily involved with their mates. It's tough for me to find the right young lady but I dont cry like a baby, make pointless excuses & say all women are corrupt. I charge it to the game, keep dating & hopefully the right young lady crosses my path. When you have that negative energy. That negativity will keep coming around you.

Comment by INDUSTRY STANDARD on July 4, 2009 at 5:37pm

I'm so damn tired of women pretending like they're so damn clean and wholesome when there are just as many dirty ass women as there are dirty ass men. Most of the time, these women are really BAD at picking a "good man" because they base it off of unrealistic qualities from the latest Tyler Perry movie. You know, the movies where the "good man" is always the SAME man that most of you women would turn your nose down at (the garbage man, the factory laborer etc..). Then unfortuantely, after you make your poor decision of the man (jail bird, hood ass niggas etc..) you turn around and label ALL men the exact sameway. You label the good man in with the stupid ass mu'fuckas that you PICKED to date when you totally ignore all of the signs.

Often times as well, women will intentionally pick a man with LESS than they have because they feel that it gives them some sort of upper hand in the relationship. Happens all the time..then when they get played, they're left holding the back while yelling at him "You ain't shit! I bought you that shirt! I put those shoes on your feet!".....yeah.......

If there is a shortage "good men" then there sure as hell is a shortage of unjaded women. There are a LOT of women who are out there running around claiming that there aren't any good men and they aren't even in a position in their lives in which they should even be CONSIDERED a candidate for matching up with a good man. I'm so sick of hearing about women who are always "about to do something" instead of what they are actually doing. See, with a GOOD MAN, its a two way street.... you have to bring something to the table for us to even BEGIN to even look your way or consider wasting our time with dating you. A foreign concept to the lot of you who are so used to talking down to a lot of men.

You need to chill out with this created defensive mechanism that you all have by saying "All men are dogs" when actually the reality of the situation is that a lot of you just aren't what the "good men" are looking for. If there is a shortage, then a lot of you are competing with one another and/or waiting for a "good man" to open up.....and by DEFAULT if you are waiting for a good man to open up, that means that you are waiting for that so called "good woman" to screw up her relationship because if the good man fucks it up, that would mean that he no longer a "good man"!?

Get your game up, stop being bitter, stop making excuses and start being the woman that you pretend to be so that you will actually land yourself a decent dude so that us "good men" can stop hearing all the excuses for why you're single. Look in the fucking mirror.....

-INDUSTRY STANDARD-